2018: A Year In Review

It is that time again! Okay, well, actually it is a little bit late but here we are. 2018 a Year in Review:

January
I started off the year with a bang. I was drinking 64oz of water each day, exercises, caught up with my RTC clients, and felt focused. I started the SELF New Year Challenge which gave me circuit workouts to do each day. But as all things, that tapered off by the end of the month. Work exhausted me, it got cold, I stopped finding the time to work out and I hadn't read a book yet. 

February
February was an incredible month. THE EAGLES WON THE SUPER BOWL!!!! I got to watch the game with some close friends at my favorite local brewery. We had a table right by the TV and ate and drank beer all night. When we clinched the title, we ran out onto Broad street and celebrated with all of Philadelphia. I was drinking champagne from the bottle and wielding an Eagles towel. 

I was so excited I almost had an asthma attack on my way to Broad. I walked all the way up from Synder to Broad and Washington, high fiving strangers and going on Facebook Live. Some guy proposed to me and a bunch of random people would just jump in my selfies. I took off work a few days later so I could experience the parade as well. I will never forget it. It is a story to tell my kids someday. 

I also got a chance to be a pretty pretty princess. My friend Kailah gave me a ticket to the annual Philadelphia Auto Show Black Tie Tailgate, which is this super swanky gala that benefits CHOP. 

We got ready at her hotel and then Uber Blacked our way to the gala. Stepping out of a beautiful SUV onto a red carpet was something special. We enjoyed an open bar and food all night long. Plus there were pretty cars we could touch and take pictures with. It was a good time. 

And here is one of the parade. It was important. There is Coach Doug and Carson Wentz. Nick Foles is next to him in the hat. PURE JOY. Best day ever. Seriously. 

March
In March I went to the Philadelphia Flower Show with my best friend David. We did the butterfly room again and I enjoyed sampling the spirits at the Wine and Spirits booth. 

Also in March, I completed a successful "run every day" challenge." Each day I ran or ran/walked 1 mile throughout the month of March. We experienced FOUR Nor'Easters last year in that month so there were some snow miles in there too. it was cold as hell but I did my last mile on the sunny Eastern Shore of VA. I had to drop my kid off with my parents because I had a very exciting adventure planned for April. 

April

In April I went on a solo adventure to Arizona and Utah. I began my travels in Phoenix and then drove to Scottsdale where I stayed at the most amazing AirBnB. I really felt like I was home. I got to visit my favorite bar out there, Old Town Gringos and the manager hooked me up with free swag and a house margarita. I also, finally, finished the hike I started a few years ago on a desert preserve. After a day in Scottsdale, I drove up to Sedona, Arizona. 

Sedona was tricky. I faced crippling anxiety for no reason AND I couldn't breathe. I was breathing fine in Scottsdale but with the altitude change, I was coughing the entire time. It was crazy and I was pissed because Sedona is a hikers mecca. They say the vortexes can make you feel things when you're there. I swear mine amplified my anxiety. I still found ways to have fun like getting a full body massage, trying acupuncture for the first time, eating dinner at my favorite restaurant there and hiking. I did a seven mile hike where I wasn't sure I would make it off the trail! (It was hard and everything hurt). My time in Sedona made me realize I needed to make my health a priority. 

After Sedona I drove all the way to Utah. It was a long drive and I was tired from not getting enough sleep the night before but once I entered Zion National Park, everything changed. It is by far my favorite national park and the most beautiful place. I fell in love. I wanted to try the hardest hike they have, the treacherous Angel's Landing, by I knew my lungs were not up to snuff. I was still coughing. I did, however, have the chance to hike part of The Narrows, where you hike IN a river in a canyon. 

I was so damn happy even though I didn't pay to get the water pants and boots. I loved Zion so much I wanted to return the next day but my receipt aka my ticket blew off the dash when I was taking pictures exiting the park. It was for the best. I went to stay at a lodge in Kanab before heading over to Bryce Canyon National Park. 

It SNOWED. Which was crazy. I didn't do much hiking because my lungs were shot. I was coughing every few minutes and I knew I didn't have the physical fitness to successfully hike down and back up the canyon. I drove it though! You can drive throughout the park and stop at all the overlooks. So I did, in the snow and it was beautiful. After Bryce I drove to Hatch where I spent the night in a beautiful little mountainside yurt. It was such a cool experience. Then I drove all the way from Utah to Scottsdale where I spent one more night in my favorite AirBnB before flying home the next day. 

Solo adventuring is amazing and I highly recommend it. I'm considering a Colorado/Utah trip this year if I can swing it. 

Upon returning, I took Bronx to Sea Isle for a romp around the Shore before the season starts. 

He had so much fun! He hates water but loves the beach. He likes chasing the shorebirds and running in the sand. It makes me so happy to see him so happy. I try to take him once a year when dogs are allowed on the beach. 

I also did the Run for Clean Air with Bronx and my friends Maura and Sharon. Then as April roared to a close I got to meet one of my heroes. The only person to get through to me when I needed it the most: Badass motivator Jen Sincero. I went to one of her book signing talks and got to get my picture with her. OMG, swoon. She is amazing and she told me to keep writing. 

May
May is when things started to take a turn for the worst. I had to work 2 weeks nonstop (including weekends) for a work project. I had one day off and it was for the Broad Street Run which I ran my slowest time ever. It was brutal. My knee hurt, my lungs were busted and I just wasn't in fighting shape. After that I had fun with my friend Ramya and spent quality time outdoors with B. 

June
I took a "big girl" fashion risk and wore a crop top to a 90's concert and party. I think I pulled the look off quite well. 

I also took my kickboxing partner to see Philly Bloco for her birthday. We had a blast. 
OH and I cut my hair! That happened in June as well. 

July
In July I attended my first ever Daybreaker rave where I did yoga in the morning and a sober dance party right after. The energy was lit! Then I took Bronx to City Hall for the annual Patriotic Pup contest. He was the poster dog this year! They used an old photo of him to promote the contest. This year I dressed him up as the statue of liberty. The contest was peer voted and ran two days. There were a total of 18 dogs. Winner would win a Bud Light gas grill. So....

Yeah, we won. By a landslide! I was so happy! I didn't have space for the grill at that moment but I strapped it into my Kia Soul, drove it to my apartment, carried it up three flights of stairs and stored it in my front room under my coat rack. haha

August
August was another crazy month. I went to Sea Isle, I attended the retirement game for Shane Victorino, my favorite Phillies player. I almost cried during his speech. It was also in August that I made a big decision. It was time to move. My landlords were selling my building and I didn't want to stick around to see what would happen. If my rent went up, I wanted more amenities. So I pulled the trigger and found my third home on Craigslist in a row! This time my dreams came true. I applied for a row home in the Whitman neighborhood of Philly. It had a basement with a washer and dryer, a dishwasher, two bedrooms and a yard. I got it! 

And I would move right after my 31st birthday, making my birthday a bit anticlimactic. 
But right after my birthday I participated in the Yoga on the Outfield event on the Phillies outfield followed by an open bar/brunch in the Diamond club. 

It was epic. 

Then I moved. 

It was exhausting. But I hired movers this time so it wasn't as stressful as it could have been and I had some friends help me which was great. I've been in the house four months now and I LOVE it. 

September
In September I decided to attend the first ever MOGUL X event in NYC. I had been writing for Mogul for almost two years so it seemed like a good idea. I got to meet CEO Tiffany Pham and have her sign her book for me. I attended cool sessions and met some interesting people. I felt a bit out of my league as the fashionistas of New York were there and I was bumbling around in ripped up jeans and a blazer, but I still had fun. 

Toward the end of September I attended a Gatsby-themed event at the Franklin Institute with my friend Kailah. 

We enjoyed speakeasy-like cocktails, jazz and costume watching. I also took B to the South Philly Sasuagefest. 

I was supposed to go camping with my parents in September. I was looking forward to it because kids were in school and it was going to be wine weekend at the campground. Unfortunately, the weather had different plans. A hurricane hit the area and my parents had to evacuate back to their home. I came down anyway and we had a "non-vacation" where we spent the whole time making fun of the fact we were not on vacation. We made the best of it. 

October
In October I got to decorate my house for Halloween! I also went to the Endless Summer Show at Xfinity Live! David and I payed for VIP access which also meant a buffet and personal viewing area. A lot of bands I liked were playing and the weather was perfect for a fall show. 

The VERY NEXT DAY, David and I drove to Jim Thorpe, PA where I would go on the hardest and scariest hike of my life. First off, I brought my mountain goat aka puppers who had been having trouble walking with one of his paws. Second, it had rained ALOT so the rocks were hella slippery. Third, it was just hard hiking with a dog. I had to pick him up and have other people pick him up and place him on rocks. On one occasion, Bronx slipped on a rock and was dangling by his harness/leash. Thank GOD I wore a runners leash with a bungee cord. That meant B was literally strapped to my torso so if he went somewhere I'd go with him. We had some close calls but the waterfalls were beautiful. I think I'd happily go again but I'd have to leave B home. 

I kept thinking about the close calls over the next few days and how I could have injured or even lost my dog on that damn trail. 

After the hike of death, I had a single day conference in Baltimore. I decided to drop B off with my parents and take two days in Baltimore so I could explore. I had never been before despite living so close to it. I got to visit the first ever Catholic Cathedral, Edgar Allen Poe's grave, Little Italy and the Harbor. I even went to the National Aquarium. 

As October came to a close, my friend Maura and I went to a bar to watch the Eagles morning game taking place in London. That meant BREAKFAST BEERS! The bar also had a raffle contest for a Yeti cooler. Maura and I combined our tickets to try to win the damn thing. 

AND WE DID! Maura lets me keep it at my house but if she ever needs it, it is all hers. It looks great with my Bud Light Grill. 

November
My high school friend Chrystal was supposed to get married in September but the stupid hurricane nixed those plans. She had to reschedule for November. I was so glad I could make the new date. 

I spent November trying to survive work. I did some community service just for fun by helping clean up my local park. Then I got to host my first ever FRIENDSGIVING at my house! I cooked a turkey for the first time and had some friends over. It went perfectly. I even got a shirt made for the occasion. 

Shortly after Friendsgiving, I attended the Philadelphia Writer's Workshop where I pitched my non-fiction book to an agent. She requested my proposal and I'm really excited about seeking representation for it!

December
December was filled with tradition and friends and even an unexpected roommate. I went to see the Philadelphia Christmas light shows, celebrated a good friend's birthday, went to Longwood Gardens to see their Christmas displays and then went home for Christmas. I also had two stories published in Milestones, the Philadelphia Corporation for the Aging's monthly newspaper. It was the first time I had a print byline in awhile. I also ended the year grateful for my RTC clients. That work really fulfills me. 

All in all it was a pretty good year. It was a hard year as well. I learned a lot about what I need to do in my life to be happy. I am getting a better sense of what my purpose is. I'm so grateful for the collection of friends I have worked on gathering and this has by far been my most social of years in awhile. I am still madly in love with Philadelphia and I have to say, I have a good feeling about 2019. 

Big things are going to happen. 

Until next time....